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“Time is the one currency you can’t get back.”
— Mark Travis Rivera
read 'infocracia' with wine yesterday night and finished 'the right to sex' tonight which was good but not great. my plans are to read a bit more of 'lolita' or 'crime e castigo' tomorrow and find a better mindset, cause honestly i've not been feeling good lately.
hope everyone is having a good time in life. 🤍🌧
God, I LOVE the shifting community!!
are you going to do it in 2025?
anything that you focus your mind onto is achievable because you are capable of anything!
so plan for this year. think of the things that you want to do, that you need to do, that will help you become the highest version of yourself. do the things without being affected by being lazy for just a day! you are more than your mood!
this is your era. 2025 is going to be your year. so act like it. make your younger self proud.
don’t do the same things year after year because if you put in the effort, you WILL see results. there isn’t anything stopping you. so get after it.
let 2025 be the year that you actually believe this. sending good vibes and positivity your way <3
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"You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them." — Shonda Rhimes
Love is the foundation of your existence, not a prize to be sought or something you need to chase. You are a living embodiment of love and you are surrounded by it in every breath you take.
There is so much light within the darkness—you just have to seek it out and allow it to shine through.
May your day be filled with loving awareness.
To believe that people will remain unchanged is to stifle your own potential for growth.
Trust that the right path will reveal itself when you allow yourself the space to see things from all angles.
Maybe you are not supposed to break free from memories—perhaps they are meant to linger, serving as touchstones that trigger the heart. ~ Megan
namaste
A song that was on all of my playlists, and I would never leave the chance signing it to myself, became the worst 'cause of some memory that I connected it with.
My mind goes blank when I hear your name
Source: twitter.com
Antlers Of Life
Personal book in progess TW: Depressive thoughts and possible triggering themes 1.484 words
Chapter 1 – REGRET
Most of the time I would rather sacrifice a good night’s sleep just to avoid waking up. It seems easier going through a day exhausted, knowing soon I'd get a good nap after a busy day, rather than dealing with the process of waking up. I’ve always hated waking up at a specific time. Sure, waking up naturally is obviously much preferred than not getting any sleep but waking up on cue does it for me. I’m not a morning person. I hate the mornings. I hate most things, actually.
I hate working, I hate getting up from my bed, I hate interacting with people, I hate society, I hate the afternoon, I hate rules, I hate depending on someone, I hate it when others tell me to do something, I hate myself most of the time. The list could go on and on. Sometimes, I wish to not wake up at all. The idea of eternal sleep sounds amazing. I’d be alone, I’d have full control but most of all I could breathe and relax. The feeling of taking a deep breath, your chest expanding without feeling tight or limited, the fresh air filling your lungs to the brim. It sounds nice in a literal sense, now imagine how nice it feels in a metaphorical sense, where your whole life feels like a big, fresh breath. This type of life only appears in my wildest dreams. I’ve never heard anyone describe their life like that. Because it isn’t. Life’s a bitch. But I still can’t help but wonder, like a little doe surrounded by darkness, that maybe one day, my life will be a big, fresh deep breath as lights poke through. Is it so wrong to hope for such a feeling?
My life isn’t bad, don’t get me wrong, others have it much worse. But I still crave to feel like a person. I still crave to understand what exactly I am, what I’m feeling, why I function the way I do, why am I uncapable of some things while others nail it from the first try? I know we are supposed to be different, I know that’s the beauty of it, but sometimes I wish to be like someone else, someone who knows what they are supposed to do. And I know, I know, many will tell me; Fawn, there isn’t a single person that knows what to do with their life. I guess we shouldn’t be considered that different then. Why is it so hard to be human sometimes? Aren’t we supposed to have control over that? Over whom we are, what we do, what we strive to be and then making it all possible? Isn’t that apart of being human? Why aren’t we human yet we claim we are?
This is why I hate rules, society, the government, parents, any kind of authority. They make you forget about yourself, about your pleasures, the things you enjoy and the things that aren’t actually impossible to achieve, you’re just too busy focusing on their needs and your own survival that you leave yourself behind. In life, most things and people will always remind us that we are the most important thing to ourselves, yet no one actually puts themselves first. Not the people who remind you of that, not you, not anyone else.
In social situations, I always bite off more than I can chew. Actually, that’s not true. That’s just something you’re used to hearing. That’s the common situation. Where a person bites off more than they can chew. A situation where you say things you don’t mean, where you say too much. That’s not it for me. I always bite less than I can chew. I always bite a chunk that never fills me, never even reaches my belly, yet I find a way to make it satisfy me. Or maybe that’s just something I tell myself to not bite off more than I do. But... What am I so scared of? Is it guilt? No, it can’t be. Is it just general fear? Is it because I was raised like that or is it something else. Something I can’t see just yet. Maybe I’m just a people pleaser as everyone calls it. There’s always a reason behind it, but I wouldn’t really be able to see it at the moment.
There are many things that make me feel the same. Laying in my bed, unable to get up from it, completely tied down to it. Other people such as my family constantly warn me of the concequences I’m already well aware of. Which made me realize, sometimes people’s encouragement only discourages me furthermore. It was always funny to me how it had the opposite effect of what it was meant to do. Moping in bed definitely isn’t something I thought life would have in for me, but I do admit, sometimes it’s very necessary. I don’t know how long I'd be able to not snap if I didn’t rot in my bed as much as I do. Makes me question things when I put it like that.
I think I’ve realized a part of why I chew less than I need.
It’s the fact I’m afraid of being in the wrong. I don’t want to attack an innocent person; someone I simply misunderstood. It’s because I always put others in front of me. I ignore my feelings, worrying about theirs. I don’t want to be the bad guy. Anytime I’d stand up for myself, even if I was in the right, other people would go against me and stand with the one who hurt me. That action alone makes me doubt myself and my actions. What if I actually am the bad one? I just don’t want to gain confidence defending myself against someone who is actually innocent. I fear regret. I don’t want to regret standing up for myself or doubt myself, it’s not something I'm used to or something pleasant to feel.
I’ll always regret bed rotting, no matter the amount of positive cheering I get from friends or family I still choose that every single time and I would lie if I said I didn’t regret it. Life is much more than my four walls of comfort and safety. I know that, I know that very well, but I don’t feel that. No matter how many mistakes I make, I keep making them because I always give in to my feelings. To my cravings. To whatever has that control over me, and sometimes I’m not sure I’d want to change that. It feels comfortable as much as it’s killing me.
Regret will always follow me through my actions. And I know I can stop it; I keep doing things that make me regretful such as not getting a good night's sleep and being overly exhausted just because I didn’t want to wake up. The waking up process, as annoying as it is, doesn’t last long and frankly everyone goes through it every single day. So, why am I so keen on fighting it? It won’t kill me, and I’ll regret it anyhow. That’s a question I don’t know the answer to yet. Feeling like this makes me frustrated, because I am working on it as much as it doesn’t seem like it. Because in reality, there’s a big part of me that’s fighting all the other ones that put my body and mind down. A part of me that’s sick of feeling depressive, regret, guilt... A part of me that wants to be a person, a person that shines more than the sun. A person that wants to not make people feel regret like I do. And sometimes that side can get so pushy, it pushes me and the others over the edge.
But that side makes me even more confused. It’s so different then the side I just explained, the side that has all those thoughts. I don’t know who I am.
Because truly I actually love the mornings and not missing out a part of the day, I love working and feeling my body move, I love getting up from my bed and making another day, I love interacting with people and learning new things about them, I love the society, at least one part of it, the part that supports other people, I love the afternoon and the warmth given by the sun, I still hate the rules though, I love being independent but it also feels relaxing to sometimes depend on someone else, I love it when others tell me what to do because my memory isn’t the best and they are just trying to help and I’m definitely still learning to love myself most of the time.
So, who am I? The negative part of my thoughts or the positive one fighting to break to the surface?
""There is a saying,'What got you here won't get you there.'" "What does it mean?" I ask "That the same set of circumstances, beliefs, actions that got you to a moment won't get you to what comes next. If you want a different outcome, you have to behave differently. That you have to keep evolving."" - Rebecca Serle, One Italian Summer
This is low key describing the development of my life philosophy over the years. Like, in order and everything. Get out of my head.
WONYOUNGISM ୨୧
Show up for yourself ೄྀ
☙ Love, love, love yourself. Your body is your fortress, take care of it. Take care of your mind, you think through it, it keeps you going.
✸ Care more about yourself, care about others less.
✦ Don't share too much with other people.
✰ Don't wait for some kind of motivation to start, start now.
ೄྀ Can't do it because of xyz..? Do it. Do it tired, do it unmotivated. But always take breaks, don't push yourself.
❃ Be disciplined. Be your better self.
Wonyoungism is a mindset— a mindset that keeps you driven to your desires, self care, self love, it's practiced.
I DID IT. I DID IT! I DID IT LAST YEAR BUT I MANAGED TO DO IT AGAIN!! 1ST HONORS GOLD MEDAL WITH BRONZE MEDAL FOR A QUIZ BOWL! I. DID. IT.
DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR MANIFESTATIWMS GUYS! DO. NOT. 2 YEARS AGO I WAS 3RD HONORS, DISAPPOINTED, ALMOST EMPTY. LAST YEAR I WAS 1ST HONORS! This year I thought it was imPOSSIBLE! BUT I DID IT! I DID IT. If I could do this and start from the bottom up, so can you! DON'T GIVE UP, KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH. HAPPY MANIFESTING BABESS! 🪻🪼💗
At this point no one can tell me “I can't shift”, blah, blah, blah. You shift every flipping second bae! Own it.
Just because you ‘failed’ again and again doesn't mean you should give up.
I've literally had enough of this bs.
“I didn't shift because I didn't do my method”
“I didn't shift because I didn't finish my method”
Respectfully.. That's NOT why you didn't shift, you can shift without finishing you method, no, YOU CAN ALSO SHIFT WITHOUT ONE. Why are you still here babe? If you just believe that you shift and think “I'll wake up in my DR” before you sleep, then you definitely will! If you believe that shifting is easy THEN IT IS. IT IS SO EASY. SO SO SO EASY! Hard truth, you're the reason why you haven't shifted yet. There is no such thing as “Not doing it right”, there are NO RULES IN SHIFTING.
Another reminder is your subconscious mind is literally blind, it can't see what you see, you decide what it believes, gaslight yourself if you have to.
Anyways babes, that's it! Happy shifting!
