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I remember being depressed for as long as I can remember being in school. I thought about going to the underworld several times, but I ended up calling my father to pick me up the moment I had those thoughts. Colleagues refuse to be around me, but it was worth it, I fought back against the aggression. Next time you have a meltdown or cry, don't be afraid to fight back or let it out. You are a human being too, your fingers can hold scissors and your fists are there to punch. I learned that punching isn't that bad after all!
I feel so fucking powerful knowing the fact that NO ONE has the power to hurt me, because I am genuinely grateful to be whatever crap I am, how ethereally gorgeous god made me and how much I love myself to the point that not even the stars and flowers, purple galaxies and beautiful trees, gorgeous red sunset and deep oceans don't match the level of lethal beauty I posses.
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đź•Š16 days of Shadow Work
✨ Here are the prompts as I promised! They are timeless, whenever they find you, feel free to use them.
Feel free to share your thoughts with me!!
✧ Day 1 What do I need to stop running away from? Why am I always running away from this and what is going to happen if I face it head-on?
✧ Day 2 What is my definition of failure? What’s something that I have previously failed at and how did it make me feel? How can I deal with failure in a healthy way?
✧ Day 3 How do I lie to myself everyday? Why am I doing this and what am I trying to avoid?
✧ Day 4 If I could say one thing to the person who hurt me the most, what would it be and why? How would I feel afterwards?Â
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My goals: until I actually step foot into school and feel the will to try leave my body
2024 goals & resolutions 🎀
with 2024 right around the corner I figured it would be a good idea to list out some of my 2024 goals in the different areas of my life. I will have financial goals, health goals, fitness goals, academic goals, and relationship goals.
đź’• Financial Goals
build my savings account to a minimum of 1000$ by the end of the year
save enough (~800$) to move into an apartment with my boyfriend
pay off my two credit cards, then use them sparingly
begin investing my money
use a monthly budget spreadsheet (loosely)
đź’• Health Goals
Follow a semi anti inflammatory diet using the 80/20 principle
get closer to my goal weight range (healthy weight for my height)
only eat out on occasions, otherwise cook at home only
incorporate more whole foods into my diet
stay hydrated on a consistent level
đź’• Fitness Goals
walk 7k-10k steps daily
keep a consistent weight lifting/cardio routine
begin attending pilates/workout classes
don't skip any of my yoga classes at my university
work on improving health and reaching my dream physique
đź’• Academic Goals
raise my GPA closer to a 4.0
pass spring/fall classes with all B's/A's
keep a consistent study routine
turn in all assignments conplete and on time
increase class attendance as I am paying for my education and should utilize class time
đź’• Relationship Goals
join one to two on campus clubs
make a friend or two within my major
take myself on solo dates
weekly dates with my boyfriend
keep in contact with all friends I make
đź’• Random Goals
Read at least 3 books in their entirety throughout the year
Move into a new apartment/rented house
Continue regular posts on my tumblr
Get to N5/N4 level of Japanese proficiency
Get to conversational fluency in Spanish
Those are my goals for the next year! Given that there are 365 days in a year, I should be able to accomplish at least 85% of these!
til next time lovelies đź©·
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I'd rather regret the things I've done than regret the things I haven't done.
Without hustle, talent will only carry you so far.
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If you think you've blown god's plan for your life, rest in this.
Maybe it is time to move on.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says,"Encourage others."
If you do not go for it, you will not go anywhere.
If you do not know where you are going, how do you know when you get there.
Life becomes what you make of it and if you're looking for excuses on why to quit, you'll find them.
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If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not you'll find an excuse.
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The Scales of Empathy and Narcissism.
Having a strong sense of self is really important. Not having it means getting easily swept away in other peoples intentions, and not realising until later on.
What well meaning “trust your gut” and “engage your empathy” people do not understand is that when empathy is overly high, a sense of self is lacking, and there is no “trust your gut”, there is only the other person, making it impossible to feel or see what is going on in real time.
It is for this reason that I created this simple scale, which I call The Scales of Empathy and Narcissism. I like the idea of balance, but would like to point out that this tool would be used in a non obsessive way as something to refer to in the need of self reflection or understanding a situation. Put simply, it is a self development tool.
Each side are the total extremes of what they are, with a nice, easy going balance found somewhere in the middle.Â
        Empathy   <---- balanced -----> Narcissism
        Over Caring <---- balanced ----> Under Caring
        Oneness   <---- balanced ----> Individuality
        Humility    <---- balanced ----> Arrogance
Using this basic scale on an inward basis means that I can see where I myself might be tilting towards less than optimal living, and when observing somebody else, or someone that I am just not quite sure about, the scale serves to remind me of the real world dangers of continuing any interaction with that person, or even business and establishment.
I find it is a good tool for looking at my own sense of self and understanding where my habitual tilt is so that I could understand more, and recognise who I really am as opposed to what any serial projectors might be saying.
The real key to all of the extremes on the scale is in the first one. By finding a comfortable place of balance that is suited to who you are as an individual person, an optimal way of living can be found.. after all, too much of anything can be a bad thing.
Stay excellent :-)
© Saturday 19th Feb 2022
self-ac·tu·al·i·za·tion
“the realization or fulfillment of one's talents and potentialities, especially considered as a drive or need present in everyone.”
Divine Love (love of self)
There's no time machine, you're wasting hours and days that will NEVER come back.
To improve you don't need money, specific course, people or heritage.
You only need Yourself.
One always likes to look for the problems in others.
But there's only one problem. And it's you.
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