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And then there’s the whole thing with Koby

just talked to nyla about this but garp being willing to ignore SEVEN MILLION DOLLARS worth of crime dadan has committed for free childcare but not being willing to break the law and help ace is crazy

You ever just see someone's post or comments and think wow you are just such a mean nasty person.

Récemment j'avais écris que j'étais toujours un peu restée dans mon coin avec mon amour de Kaamelott et que de finalement trouver d'autres gens qui l'aime autant ça m'avait vraiment rendu heureuse.

Je sais que c'est tout con, mais me faire dire que je pourris le fandom, ça me fait un peu regretter le coup. Pas par une idéologie à la con de 'les gens y sont michants'… mais l'idée de pourrir la joie des autres.

Bref, faites pas comme moi, pensez avant de balancer des trucs dans l'univers. be good people, take care, think twice before you speak.

Watching the Last of Us, and so far meh. The third episode was masterful, had both of us crying, great story telling at its finest. The rest, basically generic tv action with farcical drama generated by asinine main characters. There's potential, they need to step things up.

SO TRUE!

Those people are the type of to say that Luke got into Elysium

I made the mistake of going on the r/camphalfblood subreddit and there were people angrily slandering my daughter Drew for the “Silena was a traitor” comment and saying that they hated her and some people were joking about Clarisse/Percy beating her up or even killing her. It makes me so mad because while I can understand being mad at Drew for that statement, a lot of the hatred felt really out of line and like they were just itching for an excuse to hate her and hurl the most vile of insults at her as much as possible. And it’s messed up because it’s clearly the fault of Rick for victim-blaming Silena and putting those words in Drew’s mouth, and I can guarantee you that if Drew was a guy then people would say “oh how dare Rick make him say that? He’s awful but he’s not that awful! Drew deserved so much better rip my boy Rick could have fleshed him out beyond being just a bully but he didn’t” but because she’s a girl all of the culpability falls on her shoulders and she gets treated like the scum of the earth for a line that Rick only gave her to make her look like the worst of the worst because he REFUSES to write her as a person with any depth beyond the Asian Airhead primadonna feminine mean girl trope. It just sucks man Drew deserves so much better she deserves intersectional feminist writers who aren’t racially misogynistic scumbags and will let her get the character development arc that she deserved. This turned out longer than I thought it would but oh well I’m just salty about the hate for my girl Drew again. 😤

Pjo be getting more mad at women for reacting badly to abuse than at men for abusing women💀💀💀💀💀

Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won’t have time to make them all yourself.

Being apart of an oppressed group does not give you the right to oppress others.

Genuine question for the higher support needs Autistic community and ACTUAL kind genuine care takers of them:

"Is there any channels on YouTube which are not creepy or exploitative that feature higher support needs Autistics?"

I started down a rabbit hole of watching some videos on YouTube of higher support needs Autistics people, and their carers because I was genuinely curious and wanted to know more. I have many friends who are lower or medium support needs, so I understand roughly what their day to day is like. But not for those on the other end of the spectrum.

However, unfortunately (but not really surprisingly because of how most youtube family channels are), what I get from the impression of most of the channels that I've seen is that it's just a bunch of fucking creepy ass grown adults exploiting their children for money.

I will not name these channels outright because I don't want to promote them in anyway on my page. But it's just gross.

Why do we live in a world where I even have to say this but:

It is NOT okay to be filming your underage child while their going to the washroom

It is NOT okay to let a babysitter be creepy towards a teenager in public while also filming it. He was clearly uncomfortable with it, but the adults chose to ignore his body language just because he is nonverbal

It is NOT okay to post videos of your child having a seizure

And It is NOT okay to post your childs autistic meltdowns all over social media.

heres something everyone needs to understand

if you ask me why im mad and i tell you why im mad and it sounds like complaning dont go "oh well yeah but just stop being mad and stop complaining." because asking me why im mad means im going to tell you why im mad. it means im going to vent and complaine so if you dont wanna fucking know why im mad and you dont wanna support me with why im mad dont fucking ask because it just makes me more upset when people say "well stop being mad, theres no reason to"