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Trying to reclaim hyperfeminity as a woman is like if Black people trying to reclaim racist minstrel imagery…

you..you read this out before you sent this to me right? I’m sorry for not responding to you previously if that’s what’s got you so worked up but I looked into the book you recommended I read and I’d rather not read a book that has incorrect statistics and’s whole message when you take off the fancy ribbons is just “makeup bad, makeup please men” (and some of the deaths threats I’ve been receiving certainly haven’t helped me respond either)

Hyperfeminity and racist minstrel imagery are very VERY different things, and you trying to compare them just tells me you do not understand hyperfeminity nor do you understand the decades of pain and racism surrounding minstrel imagery.

When I made my original post I was calling out TERFs, not radical feminists (which is why it’s not used). TERFs are toxic, exclusionist, racist, transphobic/homophobic, anti-feminty, and/or just all around assholes where as Rad fems are actual feminists who believe that gender is a social construct and I have no problem with.

When I was reading your response to me you made some valid arguments and it was well written, however, you also compared women to slabs of seasoned meat and as the seasoned meat you’re talking about I’m just here to say. I chose my seasonings because I like them, I chose to wear makeup and I chose to wear short skirts because I like them.

and before you say anything about how I’m “pandering to men” shut the fuck up, it is not my job to tone myself down so men don’t get a hard on in public and try to touch me, it’s their job to control themselves and let me live peacefully. And I would be able to leave peacefully if it wasn’t for TERFs like you who let men get away with abusing hyperfeminity but it’s cause you do let them get away with it that I got my first ‘me too’ moment at 11 when I chose to wear a skirt to school for the first time.

I said it before and I’ll say it again, femininity is not something to turn away as it’s a central part in many women’s lives, nor should we turn away actual feminists just because they want to wear a mini skirt and high heels. The longer we keep this ideology the more dangerous it will become for ALL women, the longer we enforce the idea that any woman who expresses femininity is in some way made for men the harder it will be when we go to fight against S@ and the more normalized it will become.

Oh, and I don’t hate masculine women or gender neutral/gender non conforming women as you claim, they’re all wonderful and many of them are my close friends. My post simply wasn’t about them, easy as that.

I’m not your enemy, but you are very clearly mine if this is truly what you believe.

why are people trying to unassociate radfem from terf please it's so dangerous

TW: Mention of SA

I don't have many somnophilia post, but I can't help but worry that they may attract creeps. So here's a little PSA:

If you grope your partner while they're sleeping without prior negotiation of consent, that's assault.

If you penetrate your partner while they're sleeping without prior negotiation of consent, that's assault.

If you penetrate yourself on your partner while they're sleeping without prior negotiation of consent, that's assault.

If you previously negotiated and obtained consent but continue any of the activities mentioned after your partner has used their safeword, that's assault.

Consent is mandatory. Consent can be revoked at any time. This applies to any act, sexual or nonsexual. If you don't have consent, it isn't CNC. It's assault.

Rad feminist hating bimbos makes me so mad bitch

I call big spoon

my beloved wife, the light of my life, my queen, my goddess, jojo dearest, most beautiful woman in the world

your theme is making me weak at the knee’s ilysm

Ace my baby, my wife, my sweetheart I wanna cuddle u so bad baby u dont even know

Summer 2022 KFP gijinka studies ~

Once again thank you to NOT use and repost my art, really, I’ll see it.

me reading the responses to this post knowing they’re just proving my point:

If I catch any of you hoes shaming/mocking/victim-blaming/bullying/harassing or any other bullshit to hyper feminine women just because of how they dress I will personally rip out your eyes and eat your weak ass stomach.

Hyper feminine women are women.  You know what women are? Feminists, so shut the fuck up with your “you can’t be a real feminist if you’re so willing to embrace the patriarchy’s ideal of a woman” and instead leave them fuck alone and maybe take some time to analyze why you really think it’s so bad for a woman to embrace her femininity in a way that doesn’t fit your “gaslit, gatekeep, girlboss” mindset.

You know what, I’ll do it for you, the only reason you get so pissed off when you see a hyperfeminine woman indulge in her femininity is because your idea of feminism is that in order for women to be equal to men they must in some way be masculine (ex: the girlboss CEO stereotype, or the sporty girl stereotype, etc) and because you have been conditioned by our media and our society to hate hyper femininity because society knows if a woman is hyper feminine or a ‘bimbo’ she isn’t doing it for society and that pisses them the fuck off.

Hyper feminine women are not and never have been doing this to please society, they’ve been doing it because they like feminine things and they want to indulge in them.  Men and society have nothing to do with their happiness and because patriarchy can’t handle the thought of a woman doing something that isn’t made to in someway pander or please a man they flip out and have taught us to hate them (hyper feminine women).

If you don’t believe me think of all the movies you’ve watched where the hyper feminine woman has in someway been demonized, shamed, made to be the villain, looked down upon, or used as a sick joke.  There’s a lot.

You calling hyper feminine women anti-feminist is feeding into TERF ideology, and if you know anything about TERF ideology you know that one of it’s core values is turning women on each other and destroying sisterhood.   Any woman who is; respectful of her sisters, wishes equality between men and women, wishes for equality among her sisters, doesn’t turn a woman away because of something she cannot control (ex: sexual orientation, race, finical situation, etc), and most importantly is in tune with her person and is able to find her liberation (however that liberation may look) IS A FEMINIST.

There is no dress code for feminism aside from wanting equality FOR EVERYONE, now stop shaming our feminine sisters and take down your inner misogynist.

Vampires when they sip on your blood and catch extra strength Tylenol, at least two psychiatric meds, two cups of coffee, weed, and microplastics 

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If I catch any of you hoes shaming/mocking/victim-blaming/bullying/harassing or any other bullshit to hyper feminine women just because of how they dress I will personally rip out your eyes and eat your weak ass stomach.

Hyper feminine women are women.  You know what women are? Feminists, so shut the fuck up with your “you can’t be a real feminist if you’re so willing to embrace the patriarchy’s ideal of a woman” and instead leave them fuck alone and maybe take some time to analyze why you really think it’s so bad for a woman to embrace her femininity in a way that doesn’t fit your “gaslit, gatekeep, girlboss” mindset.

You know what, I’ll do it for you, the only reason you get so pissed off when you see a hyperfeminine woman indulge in her femininity is because your idea of feminism is that in order for women to be equal to men they must in some way be masculine (ex: the girlboss CEO stereotype, or the sporty girl stereotype, etc) and because you have been conditioned by our media and our society to hate hyper femininity because society knows if a woman is hyper feminine or a ‘bimbo’ she isn’t doing it for society and that pisses them the fuck off.

Hyper feminine women are not and never have been doing this to please society, they’ve been doing it because they like feminine things and they want to indulge in them.  Men and society have nothing to do with their happiness and because patriarchy can’t handle the thought of a woman doing something that isn’t made to in someway pander or please a man they flip out and have taught us to hate them (hyper feminine women).

If you don’t believe me think of all the movies you’ve watched where the hyper feminine woman has in someway been demonized, shamed, made to be the villain, looked down upon, or used as a sick joke.  There’s a lot.

You calling hyper feminine women anti-feminist is feeding into TERF ideology, and if you know anything about TERF ideology you know that one of it’s core values is turning women on each other and destroying sisterhood.   Any woman who is; respectful of her sisters, wishes equality between men and women, wishes for equality among her sisters, doesn’t turn a woman away because of something she cannot control (ex: sexual orientation, race, finical situation, etc), and most importantly is in tune with her person and is able to find her liberation (however that liberation may look) IS A FEMINIST.

There is no dress code for feminism aside from wanting equality FOR EVERYONE, now stop shaming our feminine sisters and take down your inner misogynist.

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE

true just a reminder for the girls <33

true just a reminder for the girls <33

This is really important! Please call your reps to support if you can

The Arc

New Bill Would Allow People with Disabilities to Earn & Save More Money

The bill raises SSI asset limits from $2,000 to $10,000 for individuals and from $3,000 to $20,000 for married couples.

AAVE is not TikTok Slang 

AVE is not TikTok slang, not generational slang etc. It's AAVE that gets popularized by others in their communities and repeated to the point online of it being labeled as such. Point blank. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk 🙃

Women under 5″5/are 5″5 I love you guys too, you deserve just as much love <3

Shoutout to all the ladies above 5″5, y’all are so pretty and I love you so much and I’m so glad I can be tall like you.  Embrace your height and embrace your body, your deserve all the self-love and external-love you receive.  I love you all have a great day <3

Shoutout to all the ladies above 5″5, y’all are so pretty and I love you so much and I’m so glad I can be tall like you.  Embrace your height and embrace your body, your deserve all the self-love and external-love you receive.  I love you all have a great day <3

I blog for the girls who cry on their birthdays and lose a little bit of themselves during the summer months

Just got sonic for the first time and ngl shit kinda mid

Part 1 of a thing I did a while ago- This is kinda an alternative universe to my demon slayer characters story where instead of being married to only Gyomei she’s also married to Mitsuri & my bestie Jojo (they lowkey requested but yeah)

Gonna make a second piece later with all four of them but for now this is them :)))

MF I MISS U COME BACK >:(((((

I MISS YOU TOO BABY I’M LEAVING SUNDAY SO JUST A FEW MORE DAYS I PROMISE :(((((((

I think the best part about being an English major is when I read the arguments of TERFS/BIGOTS

they write this thinking they just made a political Shakespeare but I GUARANTEE if you handed that shit to any of my professors they’d get a D or a C- best case scenario.

HAHAHAHHSHS FR THO THESE BITCHES THINK THEY JUST BLEW PPLS MIND BUT THEY JUST SPEW THE MOST BASIC BIGOT SHIT

You know I’m right so don’t even @ me

You with my dads gf fr

IF YOU FUCK MY DADS GF THEN YOU HAVE TO CARE FOR HER KID TOO DUMMY

AS IF ID CARE, ILL DO ANYTHING FOR A MILF

YOUR WELCOME I LOVE YOUR WORK KEEP IT UP!!! 💖💖💖💖

I was gonna make a big n fancy one but I fucked up my hand so I did this in aggie.io instead (also I love the image you put in response to me asking if it was chill for me to make fanart- I’m keeping it for the future)

ggGOOOOOOH THEY ALL LOOK SO CUUUUUTE 😭😭😭 love the lil color coordination sksks THANK YOUUUUUU

I call maid of honor

I'm so obsessed with middle aged actors like please leave ur wife and marry the sad girl with the fucking tumblr blog that sits in her room all day

Me (pink) & my bestie Reese (green) were drawing together in Aggie.io last week and I thought I’d share this master piece I scribbled in the corner, I would show you the full thing but I don’t have a photo and I draw a bunch of 🌽 surrounding it as a joke

(N.D. = Neurodivergent, I have ADHD & Reese is Autistic and we often copy each other’s stims/tics which is why we’re making the same face & have the same effect thing in the drawing, ex: I do a clap with only the tops of my palms so it doesn’t make noise which Reese has copied instead using the knuckles in their fingers)

bananas ROTAT E

banan a

rotato faster banana

go

g      O

can u fEel it„ b a n an ba ?

yES FEEL TH e SPED

WE HAV REAHCED MXAIMUN VLELOCIPY