cisgender butch lesbian: i don't care about being misgendered
all the cisgender people in the comments: she understands how she looks. why can't everyone be like that about misgendering?
weird way of telling transgender people to stfu about being misgendered.
like they're just pointing at gnc cisgender people and say "see, this person doesn't mind being misgendered based on looks, those transgendereds are just too sensitive!"
when they know full well misgendering hits different when you're transgender.
especially because she also said "when they see my boobs, they know i'm a woman".
and for transgender people it's often "and when they see [gendered body part] they think they know i'm a man/woman".
those are very different experiences.
especially as a nonbinary person where no one ever genders you correctly.
i've seen more and more cisgender people recently telling transgender and nonbinary people that we're not allowed to get upset when people misgender us if we "look like men/women". i'm tired of it.
stop holding transgender people to cisgender standards down to how we feel about being misgendered.
like, especially for me as a nonbinary person every he and every she just reminds me that the world was never meant for me.
gender stereotypes need to be abolished so people don't get misgendered based on clothes or hair or bodies anymore.
and don't even get me started on "but you look cisgender/like your AGAB". cisgender, transgender, nonbinary, female, male etc. don't have a look. i am nonbinary therefore i look nonbinary.
We Stan David Tennent.
Tennent called transgender critics "a tiny bunch of little whining f*ckers who are on the wrong side of history, and they'll all go away soon."
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Btw, being aro, ace, aroace, or another identity that falls under the a umbrella is one of the most queerest experiences I've ever heard of. Like, society has ingrained into pretty much everyone that you need to be in a romantic relationship and have sex? And you go AGAINST that??? That's fucking AWESOME!
Loveless aros, you have everyone, even the aro, ace, and aroaces communities talking about how "B-but, aros can still love!! We love our friends!! Not like those monsters who don't!!" and you're still you, and continue to be awesome??? Amazing!!
Moral of the story: aros, aces, aplatonics, afaimials, and others that fall under the a umbrella are queer as hell and are awesome and fuck aphobes
It's been 3 months on T, the needles suck ass but I love having voice cracks and more fat and hair and acne.
I want to see how many people actually are willing to say this and not just act like it
A reminder both to myself and other trans people: You need to keep living, the act of living as a queer person in this America is in of itself an act of defiance. Your death would be giving them what they want. Stay. Fight. Please.
Reblog if your blog is a safe space for any mspec mono peoples!!
@genderstarbucks thanks for letting me use the image!! Credit goes to him!!
foods that will poison cats:
alcohol
chocolate
caffeine
dairy products (adults turn lactose intolerant)
fat trimmings, raw meat, eggs, fish
grapes and raisins
onions and garlic
tuna (when not made for cats)
xylitol (artificial sweetener)
if you have a cat please reblog this
Shoutout to aromantic, transgender, intersex, and polyamorous people. Gotta be the some of the most underrepresented queer identities I've ever seen.
pls give me 1(one) reason aces have ever been oppressed, and 1(one) example of aces being a part of lgbt history(before 2004 at least) and then maybe i’ll consider the idea that aces belong in the lgbt community lol