Needyb0yoverl04d - Cyber

Lover boy but in the I'd cook your favorite meal for you way.

Lover boy but in the I'd take care of your dogs for you when you're away.

Lover boy but in the I'd treat your (chosen) family with respect and love way.

Lover boy but in the I'd gift you small trinkets way.

Lover boy but in the I'd be a house husband for you way.

(just wish I had someone to be a lover boy too (⁠´⁠-⁠﹏⁠-⁠`⁠；⁠)

- Charlie

Cyber/Soda post the most, actually. ^⁠_⁠^

Me because I'm finally a micro celebrity (I have around 110 followers)

Jiraiblr (and adjacent communities) have a very serious grooming / predator problem

Do not like making posts like this but as an adult who sees and engages with a lot of minors on here, I have witnessed very disturbing things, and recently something extremely illegal, horrific, and harmful to the child in question, who I will not name in this post. Please do not mention them or any other minors you know of that this has happened to or are that are especially vulnerable to these approaches/attacks that have been happening.

There are adults approaching young jirai bloggers inappropriately, sometimes explicitly, sometimes not. I see it on the dash and in tags, I see mentions of private interactions, there is no telling what happens in private conversations or on other platforms that has not been shared. They tend to enable the blogger's need for attention and validation or degradation, tendency to self-destruct, and hypersexuality, or desire to appear cute. They target weak points unique to each blogger based on what they post about or reveal in conversation. I've only seen them use anon. I don't know how many people are doing this but I suspect in some cases the same person is behind more than one.

This is intolerable. I have never been in this situation except with personal friends that I've been able to protect, so I don't know what to do, and I fear that plain reporting will just result in blog terminations and the young bloggers will come back and be preyed on again or contact their abusers on other platforms and the abuse will continue.

I know a lot of other jirais are kids, and don't call this behavior out clearly enough; they either envy it, comment the creepiness of it, or try to comfort and be positive to the victim. It's not their fault, they're kids too, it's not their job and they aren't expected to know how to deal with this, but this is not enough: You need to know that this is not something to envy, it hurts your friends, and if it happens to you, it will hurt you.

These are bad people, and not in a fun way that we can romanticize. They are the kinds of monsters that give you these problems to begin with. They don't love you. They don't think you're special or cute. They think you're weak. You're not, you are just innocent, and they are pathetic and have to resort to hurting innocent children that already have mental struggles.

To other adults in this community, no, it is not your job to parent random kids online, but it is your moral responsibility to tell someone in power, confront a predator if you are safe to do so, loudly condemn this behavior, tell people this isn't okay, and act as a model of how adults should treat kids — which doesn't include grooming or being a bystander to abuse.

As a whole we should discuss this more for the sake of prevention and awareness so that it does not keep happening. It has been getting worse. I do not care if it is a staple of Toyoko Kids to be involved in underage activity; It's bad when it happens to them, and it's bad when it happens online.

This community cannot become a haven for content and abuse like this. It's not about subculture, it's about decency. It's not cute, aesthetic, or a quirk of your personality to engage in this, endure this, or be silent about this. It's child abuse.

If that doesn't convince then you, only for selfish reasons; if this becomes too big of an issue, Tumblr will crack down even harder on Jiraiblr and blast it off the platform for safety and legal liability. So if you want a community, keep predators out of it, prevent children from being abused, and be vigilant about it.

trans masc and femme / non–binary / intersex / jirais i think we might have to stick even closer together than before

CRAZY thought, but do you think that cis / perisex women aren't the only ones who experience misogyny . . .

I'm going to say this loudly, jirai was a term made from mentally ill young adults, they were usually women but they were men as well. It isn't misogynistic for a man to be a jirai. You're just transphobic, and whatever the term is for being misogynistic but for men. Men can be mentally ill too, stop for the love of God try to exclude danshi's just because you're an asshole. Cis, trans, queer whatever you're valid. Don't listen to assholes my jirai brothers.

Remaking my intro (⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠)....

Just wanna make this clear since SOME jirais can be a little far right (I’ve seen like two but still)

I’m pro trans rights (I feel like I have to make this VERY clear bc I’ve seen SOO many anti- trans jirais)

I am pro choice

I am anti trump

I am anti war

I am pro Palestine

I am pro Ukraine 

I am a pagan and I practice witchcraft

I am all for neo pronouns

I am all for poly people

I am anti racism

I am anti homophobia and transphobia

I am pro immigration (people don’t understand how much it’s helps the usa, we literally need immigrants to function.)

I am myself a enby teen, even tho i present fem I am not a girl

I am anti názi

I am anti fascist