如果我们不做,谁做?如果不是现在,更待何时? If not us, who? If not now, when?
有生命就有希望。 While there’s life, there’s hope.
这就是真实的人生,不完美,但很实际。
This is real life. It’s not perfect, but it’s real.
我一个人时很少觉得孤独;却经常在人群和团体中感到孤独。
I’m rarely bored alone; I am often bored in groups and crowds.
强大,而不粗鲁。善良,而不软弱。勇敢,而不欺凌。谦逊,而不胆怯。自豪,而不傲慢。
Be strong, but not rude. Be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not bully; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant.
I personally struggle with depression and anxiety, along with an eating disorder (which, believe me, can have its toll in your academic life) and chronic tiredness, so I decided to make this post to share things that have helped me. Here are some study / productivity tips!
If you are feeling burned out, take a productive, physical break. If i start feeling tired but my task isn’t done, I take a small productive break. I fold clothes, clean my brushes if I’m painting, clean your room, exercise, stretch, anything that will briefly take my mind off things.
Don’t be too strict with your timetable: Allow yourself a 10 minute window between tasks because you might need a small break or something might come up. Have in mind that you will be doing the tasks you are planning to do, not the idealized version of yourself who doesn’t need breaks and doesn’t get tired (something I am definitely guilty of doing).
Don’t fight yourself! Your mood matters! Notice your mood and your body, how are you feeling? Are you tired, does anything hurt, are you thirsty, do you need to take a short walk? If you don’t feel like doing something very mentally taxing, you can put on a podcast, music or a YouTube video, and just organize your files, fold clothes, declutter your school folder, etc. You will thank yourself later without sacrificing your mental health even more.
Have a place to write down distracting thoughts that you can address later. I have a recycled piece of paper taped to my desk at all times and there I scribble ideas and things I have to do. You can check the list later, just write those thoughts down and forget about them while you’re doing your task.
Experiment with how many tasks you can do in a day. Set your priorities) and put tasks together and do a little bit of each category
Ask for help from your friends or professors! They just want you to do well and helping you or giving you a little bit more time is easy for them to give you.
Eat the frog first. Do the most difficult thing first, the one you fear the most, the one that will take you more time and energy. I have found that some tasks seem a million times more difficult in the evening than in the morning, so I usually start with the most unpleasant tasks right when i wake up since I have more energy then.
Break up everything in small parts. Outline a task before you start. Starting something is the hardest thing for me, once I know what i have to do everything is so much easier to do. Sketch it out, then just fill out the blanks.
Be aware of your learning style. One of the reasons why you find studying a certain subject difficult might not have to do with the subject at all, but with how you are learning it. Here’s a test to find out your learning style
Dedicate a whole day to one thing. This is an approach I use when I’m in a weird mood / energy fluctuation state. I just dedicate a whole day or a whole week to do something (this week is painting, I’ve gone a bit overboard), and it helps me to cram something until my desire to do that thing has gone away and then I can focus on something else.
Force yourself to work on something for only five minutes. Only five minutes! I do this when I have tried everything else and I just cannot be bothered. Put on some music and promise yourself you only have to work on that assignment for five minutes, and then you can stop. Many times I see that it was easier than I expected and I continue working on it after the five minutes has passed.
If you get bored easily, try multitasking with tasks that don’t require a lot of brain power. This is for my ADHD folks. I personally don’t have ADHD but here are some study tips from people who actually do: link one link two
Put the deadline a few days earlier so you have time to ask for help if you need it. This is a very common study tip but definitely helps if you struggle with time management.
Change the location or study with someone
Have multiple schedules: I personally have a high energy schedule and a low energy schedule. Both are necessary and I have found that they create a great balance. I can do a post on this later if you guys want!
Build an automatic routine and group habits together. This might be good for forgetful folks. Have a morning/afternoon/night routine and group tasks that you tend to forget. Organize it around an even (before going to class, after a meal) to make it impossible to forget it. It will become automatic in no time and then you won’t have to worry about that stuff.
Here are some reminders if you’re feeling discouraged.
专心 (zhuan1 xin1) - to be attentive; focused
Eg. I have to be 专心 during my studies. Good luck back to school everyone! To be honest I’m actually pretty excited for the new semester.
用爱心互相宽容。
Bear with one another in love
真的!(zhēn de -> true that)
如果你只读其他人都在读的书,你的想法也不会超越其他人。
If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.
村上春树 Haruki Murakami
生活是一场漫长的旅行,不要浪费时间,去等待那些不愿与你携手同行的人。
Life is a long journey. Don’t waste your time waiting for people who are not willing to walk with you.
Using 只有…..才能…. 只有读书,才能有出息。 (Zhǐyǒu dúshū, cáinéng yǒu chūxī.) Only studying can (make it so you) have a bright future.