If You Want To Find Me Then Look For Abandoned House Surrounded By Big Garden Where I Grow My Flowers,

who is that girl? being that girl is not a trend, it is being our best version every day

that girl gets up early every day motivated by the day that is about to begin, she does a physical activity that she loves, she eats healthy, she takes long walks in nature while listening to her favorite music, she romanticizes every moment of her life and if a problem occurs she can solve it

that girl loves herself, takes care of her body, protects her energy and knows how to set limits, she also takes care of those she loves

there is nothing impossible for her because she knows that she can achieve anything she sets her mind to because she has already achieved it before

she appreciates every minute of her life because she loves her life and everything she does every day

she can get through the hard times and allows herself to rest if she needs to but when she pulls herself together she knows she will keep on going

she is perfect because she is herself and knows her worth, wherever she goes she is received with love and is always surrounded by positivity and good people

that girl has a special magnetism, she is attractive, she is abundant and charismatic

at night she plans the next day, prepares for bed with small rituals like a hot bath with bath salts and lights a candle with her favorite scent, meditates and continues to believe in her goals

do you want to be that girl? 🤍

People mistreating you is not a challenge from the universe for you to prove your worth.

i’ve been lowkey suicidal and depressed for the past month and i want a complete life revamp. starting from the ground up and completely LEVELLING UP. where should i start (somethings that are relatively cheap) to start this complete overhaul?? do you have any other advice or tips as well??

Oh sweety I’m sorry to hear this. Please remember everyday is a new day! there are people around you who love and care about you. You’re not alone nor will you ever be, my inbox is always open

Step 1, Levelup Your Daily Routine

Every Morning set your intentions. For an example, “Today I will remain positive no matter what”

“Today I will complete One important task”

“Today I will do something out of my comfort zone”

Every Morning say your gratitude (THIS ACTUALLY CHANGED MY LIFE IN THE SPACE OF 3 MONTHS)

Say what you’re thankful of, roof over your head, hot water, heating, your health, food, clothes on your back etc.... no matter how depressed or sad you feel remind yourself of the good things you have ALWAYS.

Routine

- Wake up with the sun

- Have a good deep cleansing shower (I have a feminine energy playlist when I shower)

- Have a Daily skincare Routine

- Deeply moisturise your body

- Do some beauty maintenance I.e pluck brows, paint your nails, deep conditioning your hair

- Drink 2.2 Liters of water daily

- Eat healthier (have more fruits, more vegetables in your meals) please, please, please, drink some green tea

- Workout if you have the time, or even do yoga

- Try your best to avoid sad music.

Someone once told me the lyric you sing is a form of manifestation so make sure the music you’re listening to is something you want to speak into the 3D and if you ever feel sad or depressed try your best to get out of that emotion, I personal stand up comedy and boom I’m back. I 1000% recommended Dave Chappelle

Step 2, DETOX

Detox all the toxic people in your life!! You need people in your circle that want to see you win!

Types of people to keep

- Someone that motivate you & chasing there dreams

- Someone who is loyal

- Someone who have who has an active lifestyles

- Someone that push you out of your comfort zone

- Someone who is emotionally and financially stabled

Remember your circles says a lot about you. These are type of people that will bring balance back into your life

Step 3, Plan + Action

What monthly or yearly goals do you have? Wake up with a purpose and spend each day getting closer to your goal. For an example, if you want your dream job. Research what experience you need for that role and each day set yourself a task to get closer and closer to it.

THE BEST LEVEL UP IS TO BE EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, SPIRITUALLY AND FINANCIALLY STABLED

the fairy challenge 🧚🏽‍♀️ ( 11/14/21 - 12/14/21 )

why titled "the fairy challenge"? because fairies are magical and beautiful beings.

this challenge is for us to manifest our desires & spend more time with ourselves, getting to know ourselves better. this includes engaging in hobbies, self care, whatever manifestation technique of your choice, and receiving everything you want :)

objectives:

embody god and manifest quickly and with ease.

get to know ourselves better.

become independent in manifesting and in life.

prioritizing ourselves.

glow up

pre-challenge tasks:

+++ well, first off i want you to think of/create a list of everything you want to manifest. everything you state/make note of, we are going to manifest within this month span. also, make a vision board, even if you don’t use vision boards, still make one to feel happy about what you’re going to manifest!

+++ make a list of/create a list of everything that you like, (hobbies & forms of self care), this is what we will be engaging in during the time period. we want to keep our minds sharp and healthy!

+++ clean up your spaces! we want to be organized and ready for this month of productivity & receiving. if you are in school, do all your work and get ready for the upcoming school week. if you work, set your schedule together and organize your belongings.

+++ create an affirmation list for everything you want to manifest! these can just be general affirmations like; “every aspect of my life is ideal.” , “my body is perfect.” , “my appearance is perfect, alluring, and beautiful”. this list does not have to be long! it just needs to suit you, you HAVE to be okay with your affirmations. one affirmation you MUST have is “i am becoming the ideal and best version of myself”. (adjust to fit you just make sure it pretty much has the same meaning)

+++ create rules for manifesting ! make sure this is PERSONAL. figure out what your limiting beliefs are, then create a rule that overrides that. make this so that you for example, some of my rules are:

whatever i intend to manifest, will manifest how fast i want it to manifest; it always comes better than expected.

all manifestation methods work instantly for me, all i need to do is persist.

all my desires manifest quickly, easily, and effortlessly. i get my desires within 2 weeks; time lag doesn't exist.

i manifest instantly, manifesting is easy.

my subconscious can detect when i want something and fulfill it immediately.

+++ make affirmations for your self concept ! this needs to be personal also , target your limiting beliefs. for example, some of my affirmations for self concept are:

i am the only creator of my world.

manifesting is easy and effortless.

i can manifest anything and everything.

my life is perfect and easy.

REQUIREMENTS:

set a time limit for tumblr for like five minutes per day, stop listening to neville, don’t research manifesting any more. during this challenge you must NOT CONSUME ANY MORE INFORMATION. all the answers you need for manifesting is within you, you already know what to do. just know to apply it.

spend as much time as you can, off of your phone/devices. we want to get to know ourselves better, so we need to spend more time with ourselves. (i suggest you copy & paste this post into your notes)

BE ON TOP OF YOUR WORK!! get things completed before they need to be.

DAILY RITUALS (these things must be done daily)

engage in at least one of your happy rituals (hobbies/self care) during the day.

look at your vision board at least once for at least two minutes. i want you to look at your vision board in a state of receiving, knowing that this will be your lifestyle. DO NOT look at it as if this is something you can’t achieve, as if it’s just a dream. EXPECT WHATEVER THAT IS ON YOUR VISION BOARD TO COME.

reread your manifestation rules at least once, (time is your choice).

journal how your day went, how you manifested (how easy/hard it was, mental pressure, your doubts) & how you feel at night. if you didn’t like your day, revise it in the technique of your choice.

affirm your affirmations for your desires and self concept, before bed.

WEEKLY RITUALS (these things must be done at the end of the week friday/saturday)

tidy up your spaces and reorganize if needed.

catch up on all your work.

revise your week, if needed.

check in at 12/14/21 for the end of challenge reflection. you'll do great my loves :)

^ after posting , i manifested this showing up on my explore

｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ。 𝒾𝓉 𝑔𝒾𝓇𝓁 𝓂𝑒𝒹𝒾𝒶 　ﾟ･｡･ﾟ

*ੈ✩‧₊˚ Oh, the Internet. A myriad of a million hyperlinks, videos, and social media platforms barraging us with contradicting advice from every single angle...and here I am to throw some more in your lap! Below are a handful of online blogs, Youtube channels, and Spotify podcasts that I myself love and live by. Truthfully, I did plan on adding a list of self help novels that transformed me into moi but....there's just far too many. Perhaps another time, my darlings! I sincerely hope that the media I've included here resonate with you and allow you to step into your highest self. Enjoy!

*ੈ✩‧₊˚ blogs

La Vie En Rose Diaries by Blair Natalia

Blogpost of Choice: Why I’m Treating Myself like the Princess I Deserve to Be ♡

The It-Girl Diaries by Lydia

Blogpost of Choice: Becoming Your Own Version Of 'That Girl'

The Skinny Confidential by Lauryn Bosstick

Blogpost of Choice: How to Remove Toxicity From Your Mind And Body

Aria Kaiser by Aria Kaiser

Blogpost of Choice: Lets Talk Food

The It Girl Guide (TIGG) by Sky Haarsma

Blogpost of Choice: Our It-Girl Essentials

*ੈ✩‧₊˚ podcasts

Early Call Her Daddy episodes

Sofia With An F by Sofia Franklyn

Busy, Yet Pretty by Jadyn Hailey

The Wellness Cafe by Trinity Tondeleir

The Skinny Confidential by The Skinny Confidential

The Balanced Blonde by Jordan Younger

The Blonde Files by Arielle Lorre

Already Friends by Allison Wetig and Ceara Kirkpatrick

Middle Ground by Jo Johnson and Caroline Stelte

Crying In Public by Sydni and Sarah

The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The Tony Robbins Podcast by Tony Robbins

Trying Not To Care by Ashley Corbo

For You From Eve by Olivia Eve Shabo

Unf*ck Your Brain by Kara Loewentheil

The Psychology Of Your 20's by Jenna Sbeg

Habits Of A Goddess (Affirmations)

The goop Podcast by Goop Inc.

Almost 30 by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik

Guide Me Glow by Shannon Tang

Girls with Goals by AnnCatherine and Caroline

Hot Girl Energy by Kaylie Stewart

The Bossbabe Podcast by Natalie Ellis and Danielle Canty

Girlboss Radio by Puno

Gals On The Go by Danielle Carolan and Brooke Miccio

Girls That Invest by Sim and Sonya

Her First $100K by Tori Dunlap

Victoria's Thoughts by Victoria de Vall

Breaking Beauty by Jill and Carlene

*ੈ✩‧₊˚ youtube channels

Alay Bowker x Give Me Glow ; vlogs, guides, and inspo

Alyse Parker; wellness, lifestyle, and spirituality

Claudia Sulewski; vlogs, style inspo, lifestyle

dear peachie; beauty, makeup tutorials, makeup trends

Elena Taber; vlogs, lifestyle, and travel

Emma MacDonald; vlogs, hauls, and modeling

Eva Meloche; vlogs, lifestyle, organization inspo

Maddie Lymburner; meals, workouts, lifestyle inspo

MadFit; every type of workout for every type of fitness journey

Makayla Merie; vlogs, workout attire, lifestyle inspo

Meghan Livingstone; holistic nutrition, gut health, meal inspo

Romee Strijd; VS angel turned vlogger

The Skinny Confidential; recipes, girl talk, and wellness

Thewizardliz; the queen of having an "it girl mindset"

Yoga With Adriene; yoga for everybody!

Much love, Auden♡

Honour the little girl inside of you, the little girl that was abused, hurt, abandoned, who felt she was never enough. Let her feel safe, let her know she is loved, tell her everyday. Make her feel so special, she deserves it, keep her clean and warm and nourish her with the nutritious foods. Let her feel free. Let her embrace the things she loved doing, skating in the park, jumping on the trampoline, painting, running, swimming, making sandcastles, girly sleepovers, making stories, playing dressup. It might sound silly, it might sound irrelevant but honouring the little kid inside of you is going to bring you so much joy and fulfilment. That little version of you, still exists, and deserves to be honoured. Give yourself the love and care, and joy that was stolen from you as a child.

the cure to self-sabotage is to anchor yourself to the universal truth that you are worth it. you are worth the effort. you are worth the difficulty, you are worth the time, you are worth the consideration. there is never a point in your life, in time itself, that you are not worth it. return to this truth when you feel yourself slipping. do not let it go.

morning affirmation

I will take care of my body and all it carries. I will gently wake up my skin with warm water and shimmering lotions, I will be delicate and patient with my tangled hair that represents my good night of needed sleep. I will feed my body the substances it requires to flourish and gift myself with steamy lavender tea and honey as he fog leaks through the screen of my windows. 

I am a beacon of light who will be soft and understanding to those around me who may be found in darker places in their own minds. I will reject the idea of taking others emotions personally. As one loads their bow with an arrow of negativity at me, I will consider why I am the target, or what I can provide to lower their weapons. I will not fight negativity with negativity, only with understanding and a soft heart. I will nourish my soul and stretch my body in the sun. I will care for myself deeply today.

how i manifested my dream life with extremely hard circumstances + how you can too ♡

♡ sections of this post:

the importance of making this post

my take on manifestation + the 3D

HOW I DID IT - my journey in 4 phases i went through that include my mindset changes up to the moment i got my desires 

your new rules & routine from this moment on

a note from me!

frequently asked questions: separated into topics regarding the 3D, self concept + miscellaneous questions to have you leaving this post stress free.

now let’s get into it. read every bit of this post “ ~ ୨୧ ♡ ·

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