Gothstudybuddy

one day, two cafes, and a whole lot of studying 🤍

If you've ever told a person who's had to be bedbound for a period of time that you wish you could "just stay in bed", DO IT.

Stay in bed. For days. But don't get up if someone needs you to, or you get bored, or you get antsy. Don't do anything other than rest. Just lie in your bed, whether you need to get stuff done around the house or socialize or anything else "productive". You'll have to cancel on people, you'll disappoint them, they won't understand.

And if you're thinking, "well, i CAN'T just be in bed. There's stuff that has to be done - I have plans", maybe ask yourself why you assumed a disabled person doesn't have plans or things to do or desires.

skin is not supposed to be perfectly smooth and clear and unblemished. it’s literally like 5 sq ft of organ that’s ENTIRELY ON THE OUTSIDE OF YOUR BODY. it’s supposed to protect you and your organs and your muscles and ligaments etc. without skin that can adapt we would all be riddled with infections and pain. even “imperfect” skin loves you and doesn’t want you to suffer. be nice to it . it is your friend

I hope that everyone who was hurt through religion , finds comfort , And safety . Whether that be in a new religion , finding peace in an old religion , or fining peace in a lack of religion .

I feel like most able bodied people see wheelchairs as the worst thing that could happen to a person. When I discuss my want to have a wheelchair for various reasons, most peoples first reaction is to be surprised that I could voluntarily consider that.

But what they fail to consider is that, unlike them, I very much hate walking. It causes me pain and fatigue, it is a miserable experience.

So to any able bodied person reading this, yes some wheelchair users like walking, some want to gain that ability back, but that does not invalidate the feelings of wheelchair users who absolutely hate walking.

heads up for gays that don't use tiktok: you're gonna start hearing the words "demure" and "mindful" a lot more than you used to

Hiya guys, I'm getting back into tumblr to use as study motivation and accountability for next year! I'm looking for study friends, so please help this post out a little if you don't mind <3

About me:

23 years old

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Almost finished 1st year of BSW, looks like it'll be a B average

Switching to nursing school in March

AuDHD + EDS + comorbs

I want to become a nurse practitioner and specialise in the above conditions

Very big on equity, liberation, and social justice

Anti-zionist, pro jew (I want to convert one day!)

I hang out in the Study Together discord a lot, you can find me in Medical Zone if I'm there :)

engaged!! my lovely sweet partner and I have been together for 3 years <3

outside of study I like to crochet, lift weights, watch Critical Role, and play video games. Also obsessed with Greys and House atm

Current fav games are tlou, ow, apex, cp2077, and skyrim !!

can we talk about how literally 64% of people wear glasses, and yet we NEVER see them in movies/tv unless it's on some nerdy or uncool character? why do we adhere to such a weird beauty standard that subconsciously makes us feel bad for,, not being able to see???