The only good thing about growing up in a patriarchal society that forces the male gaze on everyone is that we are taught how to act, how to look and how to speak in a way that men find desiarble and therefore we learn how to manipulate men without even realizing it.
women at my gym in their 40s and 50s that are in better shape than most 20-somethings are my workout motivation
I think I just expected that someday someone would come along who was like me and because they were like me they would care about what I was hiding and dig it out of me with a blunt instrument but that person has never come and they never will and instead of mourning that I should just turn the blunt instrument onto myself and show what I find to others
thank you for the reminder 🤍
To my ladies chasing their dreams.. keep going ✨🤍
there is no shame in this game
“The only safety is in money… Money is a woman’s only power in this world. Make it your solace and your dream and one day wealth, real lasting wealth will make you free.”
— Margaret Wells, Harlots (via brownstatuesquesugarbaby)
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Rich whore energy is using a white envelope as your wallet
THIS
Determine who needs to be lied to and who doesn’t need to be lied to. Not everyone deserves your honesty because not everyone is honest.
Men will lie to you, manipulate you, play the victim, cheat on you, gaslight you.. there are no exceptions. Even if you think you found a man who is different - in the end they all turn out to be like this.
my current struggle
Do you know how hard it is to concentrate on school work when you know you’re barely going to use the degree and your future most likely entails you on a yacht in Greece with an old man